I’ve known this cute girl for 10 months and have feelings for her, we kissed a year ago and she acted like my girl when we worked together. We spent 6 months stuck together having a laugh and flirt(hands on her big butt) lol it was romantic but coworkers started to gossip so she distanced herself.
She had feelings (crying,called me everyday for the first 2 months) but told me it wasn’t the right time because that she missed her ex of 5 years and isn’t over him. I don’t work with her no more so phone conversation is awkward and I feel frustrated and when I call.
Before xmas we spoke about 3 times a week but I gave her space. I’ve asked her to go for a drink sometime. I don’t suggest date,location time because she never says “I’m free” or anything. Just that she will let me know or gives some excuse :/
In person our eyes would lock on and her eyes would squint so she seemed really into me. She used to call me in the morning to go to work and we would go together. It’s the past now but it saddens me we can’t work together no more and I don’t want to abandon her. We were supposed to meet at another part time job and she flaked saying she was sick. I’ve not really seen her properly for 4 months. Last time I saw her was November. I would like to keep in touch but speaking as regular as we did is hard now. I told her yesterday how much I care about her and she got uncomfortable I think. Do you think it would work if I called her once in awhile instead of every week? I don’t think she really wants to date anyone and even though she flirts with me not seeing her is making us distant.
