Me & my friend M have been friends for 6years now. My bestie is a girl & I’m a guy. We’ve had our ups & downs, fights and arguments, you name it, we did it. Now we’re both attached and our partners are close friends with all of us. I am even close to her bf. I do not like her or anything just mutual love for a friend. I love my GF very much. Lately, I introduced a close Guy friend of mine of 3 years & his gf to my bestie and her bf. At first it was just mutual conversations they exchanged, but as time passed, they bonded, apparently I was okay with this because I wanted to widen my pool of friends. So we went on holiday last week and during the holiday they sorta bonded even more & I felt like they didn’t want me around anymore. Yesterday evening we hung out, I felt like my bestie’s bf neglected me (he’s never done that before). I felt left out, I felt like me being there was no longer needed. I’m really sad. Yes I know I’m 23years old, but this shouldn’t be the way I should feel, especially when today is my birthday. I feel so heartbroken about all this. Should I stay or just make my way elsewhere and just forget all this happened.. I’m lost… Help me someone )=
have you tried talking to someone is your group of friends about this, maybe some sort of misunderstanding happened while you were gone or something and you guys just need to work it out. Hope this helps and good luck
The key to any relationship is conversation do not be afraid to get hurt by learning the truth.
First of all, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!! However, a couple things: #1- you know, new friends are like new lovers, everything’s new and exciting at first, they’ll chill after awhile, it just sucks because it happens to coincide with your b’day. #2- ( I’m not trying to sound like a ***** here), but you can’t expect everyone to make you the center of their attention. If your not having fun, blow that popsicle stand!